This is a guy who is self-less, reliable, kind, and (most importantly) the one who always gets the short end of the stick.
I have been this "Nice Guy" for way to long. "oh Matthew my boyfriend is being mean to me come be my friend", "oh Matthew I need some help with my homework", "hey Matthew I need a ride" (this is even funnier cuz recently my truck caught on fire), "hey Matthew, Matthew Matthew"....Screw off.
I am sick and tired of being the side guy who is there for you because you have a shitty boyfriend but when the time comes to choose between him and me....yeah you choose him. Or when I now suddenly need a ride cuz my truck is gone I get no help. Who the hell is helping me with my homework. Screw You.
Here is some advice for you guys out there who think that being nice to a girl will get her on your side, or think that being nice pays off in the end....it doesn't work.
You have to do whatever is best for you in every situation.
For example if you need to finish a project but your "friend" that you have been seriously crushing on calls and asks for someone to talk to for hours about her shitty boyfriend or if she asks for a ride just say "sorry, gotta finish my project"
Bam. There you go. Do whats best for you because in the end, when its all said and done. The only one that will still be around is you. Gotta live with yourself before you can even pretend that moving in with her is a good idea. Be smart. DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU. and tell the jerks in your life to take a cucumber wrapped in sandpaper and shove it where the sun don't shine.
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